It is perfectly normal for parents to have a hard time talking to their kids about sex and birth control. Properly and clearly discussing sexuality to children and teenagers is very important as this will certainly prevent unwanted and unexpected situations that can seriously affect the future of the children.
Even though discussing sexuality matters with youngsters is an essential task for parents, they still find it hard to open up or initiate the conversation with their children. Some are afraid that their teens might misinterpret the sensitive things they explain to their youngsters.
So, if you are one of those parents who do not know how to begin the conversation on sex and birth control with your young ones, read the following tips below for some helpful advice on such dilemma.
* Determine your own attitude regarding sex and birth control.
It is proven that teens who can talk with adults regarding issues on sex are the ones whose parents are comfortable and are open about the subject. When kids are exposed in such environment, they are less likely to be engaged in pre-marital sex and unwanted pregnancy.
As such, being comfortable with sex is important for you to be able to discuss the matter with your teenagers. If you are uncomfortable with sex and the use of birth control, try to discuss first your beliefs and feelings with your spouse, close friend, or with a physician. This way, you will be able to feel more confident on discussing sexuality matters with your teens.
* Begin discussing sexuality matters with your teenagers as early as possible.
It is best to try discussing sexuality matters with your young ones as early as possible in order for you to have an easier time explaining even more serious and complicated matters with them in the future. Begin when your child is in his or her early adolescent age. Take advantage of situations when you can best discuss sexuality and birth control use with your kids.
* When discussing sexuality and birth control with teens, also explain the emotional aspects of these issues.
Apart from explaining the biological aspects of sex and the use of birth control, it is also important for you to include the emotional inclinations of these matters. By discussing these with your teen, he or she will be able to understand more the consequences and responsibilities involved in participating in sexual activities and using birth control methods. Knowing these things will also protect your child from untimely pregnancies.
* Make sure to provide appropriate and accurate information.
Once you start the conversation with your teenager, make sure to explain only accurate information regarding sexuality and the use of birth control methods. Never lie. Instead, leave the topics that you are still uncomfortable to discuss. Explain them once you are ready so you can avoid telling false facts to your teenager.
In addition, explain sexuality topics that are appropriate to your child’s age. Do not cram your teen’s mind with info that he or she still cannot understand. Explaining some facts and issues that are inappropriate with your child’s age will only confuse his or her concept on sexuality.